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Dakota Johnson Talks "Very Scary" Turn in Fifty Shades Freed

Dakota Johnson Talks “Very Scary” Turn in Fifty Shades Freed

Dakota Johnson, AllureDakota Johnson is used to baring it all onscreen, but that doesn’t mean the actress is any less terrified.
In Allure’s “New Naked” issue, the Fifty Shades Freed star…

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Arnold Schwarzenegger Calls Eliza Dushku Courageous for Sharing About Molestation Allegations

Arnold Schwarzenegger Calls Eliza Dushku Courageous for Sharing About Molestation Allegations

Arnold Schwarzenegger Arnold Schwarzenegger called Eliza Dushku “courageous” for speaking out about her sexual molestation allegations against stunt coordinator Joel Kramer.
On Jan. 14, Tom Arnold, who…

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Black Lightning's Cress Williams on Why His Show Is Unlike Any Other Superhero Series on TV

Black Lightning’s Cress Williams on Why His Show Is Unlike Any Other Superhero Series on TV

Black LightningBlack Lightning isn’t your typical superhero show. For one, The CW’s upcoming series doesn’t star a strapping twenty-something that fans have come to expect from the Arrowverse….

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This Sex Scene on 'Crashing' Proves How Easy It Is to Ask for Consent

This Sex Scene on ‘Crashing’ Proves How Easy It Is to Ask for Consent

This Sunday in the season two premiere of ‘Crashing’ on HBO, Pete Holmes’ character asks for consent. It shouldn’t feel extraordinary—but it is.
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PBS Series #MeToo, Now What? Aims to Go Beyond the Sexual Harassment Headlines and Examine What's Next

PBS Series #MeToo, Now What? Aims to Go Beyond the Sexual Harassment Headlines and Examine What’s Next

Zainab SalbiPBS is taking a look at the #MeToo movement with a new five-part series, #MeToo, Now What? executive produced and hosted by Zainab Salbi. Announced by PBS at the 2018 TCA winter press tour, the…

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Kim Kardashian's Bumpy Road to Baby No. 3: Pregnancy Health Scares, Surrogacy & More

Kim Kardashian’s Bumpy Road to Baby No. 3: Pregnancy Health Scares, Surrogacy & More

Kim Kardashian, Kanye West, North West, Saint West, EasterBaby No.3 is here for Kim Kardashian and Kanye West and boy, was it a bumpy road!
From dealing with placenta accreta after she gave birth to North West to suffering from preeclampsia…

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A Letter to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self

A Letter to My Sixteen-Year-Old Self

A love letter to growing up, getting wiser, and figuring it out.

Dear Sara at 16, 

It’s your birthday today. Right now, you and your friends are probably hanging out in your basement, playing Mario Kart and dancing stupidly to the halfhearted pop/rock of 2008. But because it’s you, I know you’re thinking about the future, what the year holds for you – whether this will be the year that changes everything.   

I know, I know – you’re rolling your eyes at this well-worn internet trope, written ~from the future~ by a 26-year-old version of yourself. You think you’re too cool and too smart to fall for this sentimental ish, but there’s no emotional manipulation here, no agenda. I just want to tell you how proud I am of you. I want give you a little glimpse into the future and a little advice that I know you won’t take.  

In a lot of ways, 16 will be good to you. You’ll read two of your favorite books for the first time, books you’ll reread more times than you can count in the next 10 years. You’ll watch your favorite movie for the first time. You’ll listen to albums that’ll change you, as horribly cliche as that sounds – Radiohead’s In Rainbows, Imogen Heap’s Speak for YourselfSia’s Some People Have Real Problems. You’ll cry the first time you hear the song “Dark Come Soon” by Tegan and Sara.

You’ll take classes that spark your interest in government, politics, and social justice, and you’ll continue to hone your crafts as you write your stories and sing and make art in your little corner of the universe. You’ll have teachers who nurture your skills and respect your ideas – you’ll learn to have more confidence in your brain and your creativity. 

You’re learning how to be yourself, too. You’re saying no to the things you don’t like or you don’t want to do, and starting to take pride in your interests that are off the beaten path. You’re speaking up in classes, and not diminishing yourself in order to fit in. You will become more open-minded and open to new experiences, and you’ll learn some surprising things about yourself. You’re starting to think about your identity and your future.  

In other ways, 16 will hurt. You’ll fall in love with a boy, and he’ll reject you; your friendship will never recover. It will hurt, and you will hold onto that hurt for a long time. Friends you trust will let you down; you’ll learn that you can’t make someone change their mind about you. This will hurt, too. 

You will make mistakes; you will speak without kindness or softness, without empathy, and you will hurt people. You will try your hardest at something, and you will fail. You will be wrong. 

And, you will feel lonely. Even as you make new friends, surprising friends who will have your back for the next ten years, and as your amazing family loves and supports you unconditionally, you will feel so, so lonely. You will be crippled by self-doubt and self-hatred. There will be times where you feel helpless, like there is no point in anything. One small part of you will know that this is not right, not normal, and I wish I could say this is the year you tell someone, but it will be years before you really get the help you need. 

I want to tell you that, most importantly, you’ll be okay. Your failures, your sadness at this age, will feel insurmountable, but nothing is permanent. There’s always a way out of it, even if that way is through it, and you don’t have to do it alone. The bravest thing you will ever, ever do, is ask for help. 

I want you to know that not getting your way is sometimes the best thing that’ll ever happen to you. You didn’t end up with the guy in high school, but just two years later, you’ll meet the man who will become your partner. Later in your life, you won’t get the job you wanted, but a door will open to something different that will make you much, much happier. It may hurt in the short-term, but it will make you so resilient and strong. 

It will do you well to learn to apologize, and to mean it. Learn to admit that you’re wrong, too, while you’re at it, because it happens far more than you’d like to admit. 

At 16, you may feel like being smart and clever is the only thing you’ve got going for you, but you will learn very quickly that making people feel stupid is not a good way make friends. I know it will take years to figure this out, but being kind, open, and empathetic will not only make your relationships so much stronger, but it will help you feel better about yourself. 

On the note of relationships, learn to let people be themselves. You can’t make people like you, and you can’t make people behave the way you want them to. You will have housemates who frustrate you, mentors who disappoint you, and friends who betray you. You can forgive them and learn to love and accept them as they are, or you can let them out of your life. Stop holding grudges, too. The dumb saying is true: it’s like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. 

Finally, don’t lose your fire. You want so badly to do something important with your life, and by the time you’re 26, the world will desperately need people like you to stand up for what is right and make the world a better place. You may not be doing it the way you thought you would at 16, or at the scale, but don’t ever underestimate your power or your ability to do good. 

You have the whole world in front of you, and you still will ten years from now. You don’t have it figured out now, at 16, and you won’t have everything figured out at 26 either. It’s okay. We’ll be okay. Learn to take it all one day at a time, and slowly make the changes you need to live the life you want to live. I’m so proud of you and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us. 

Love, 

Sara at 26

What do you think? 

What would you say to yourself at 16? Let me know in the comments below!


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BONPOINT WINTER 2017

BONPOINT WINTER 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

We just got back from a long weekend upstate, and my head is already overflowing with things to do, ideas for the blog, and preparations for Paris Haute Couture, and OF COURSE: The Bonpoint Fall-Winter 2018 show!!! It’s that time of year again, and I couldn’t be more excited! Couture is and will always be my favorite fashion week of the season. The pace in which things go during that week is a thousand times better than the nerve wrecking and completely exhausting Ready-to-wear week. Nonetheless, I love that week too, but IF I had to make a choice, you and I know which one I would go for. Another upside is a more private one, do you know what I’m talking about…

Of course you know! It’s I think the third, no wait, it’s the fourth season we are going to Paris, as a family, because we are invited by our lovely Bonpoint family! Last season the kids made their first appearance on their runway, and both enjoyed it enough that we are going for it again this season. Me being the nervous mommy, the kids being their perfect self. So until we board that plane to this city of love, and fashion, here’s a little something to look at. James and Stella, both wearing Bonpoint Winter 2017, shot by me on our family weekend to the Catskills!

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017 Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

Thefashionguitar for Bonpoint Winter 2017

James and Stella are both wearing Bonpoint Winter 2017

Photography by me

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Keira Knightley Thinks Female Characters "Nearly Always Get Raped" in Modern-Day Movies

Keira Knightley Thinks Female Characters “Nearly Always Get Raped” in Modern-Day Movies

Keira Knightley, VarietyKeira Knightley is more likely to star in a period piece than a movie set in modern times–and for good reason. As the actress explains in the new issue of Variety, she feels female characters are…

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Keira Knightley Thinks Female Characters “Nearly Always Get Raped” in Modern-Day Movies